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I found this while trawling through old emails looking for U-Tube links to put in the links page - all BDSM related, my personal favourites.

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This email dates from 25th May 2011 - 13 days after First Contact on the memorable Wednesday night in the British Spanking Forum ...

It sort of sums things up you know.

Dominant One with the Hard One
Been thinking about this all night - guess who didn't get any sleep?
This is the 3rd Test.
 
1st was probably to turn up and obey, on Saturday 7th May.  It was truly a magickal occasion, that.  So intense.  Before I saw you I was so nervous.  I had been up on the gallery for a good 30 minutes, shaking and clinging on to the barrier, trying to work out who you were by scanning the crowd below.  I was so glad you held me close like that straight away - so my first impressions were 1) you were drop dead gorgeous and 2) overpowered instantly by that fatal irresistable chemistry as you took me in your arms.  I might have fainted if I hadn't been so captivated and curious to know what you were going to do next.
I was turned on initially by your chatroom charm, by your seductive, sinister voice, by your texting and by your electrifying presence.  I have been wet ever since.
 
2nd Test to take a spanking, within a week of beginning the search, Angel seeks Devil, I was pinned to a tree while he satisfied me in a way Ive NEVER been satisfied before, by really giving it to me, a damn good spanking - in the woods, so real, so intense, so exciting, soooooooooooo gooooooooooooooood.
 
But now there is another Test, isn't there Sir?  Quite a Test of Submission that one, after just one little week, your demand of me that I submit in front of what will be a huge audience.  That's a new one for me.  (Ah, the video shoot! - did you know you could do this?)
 
Sir, you are full of surprises.  It's an absolutely brilliant anniversary present.  Thank you so very very much.  I promise you will not be disappointed.  I will perform for you Sir, just for you!
 
I will write the scenario for it next.  I am a little obsessed with your manhood right now, Sir.  That is not a sensible image to have in one's head while faced with a massive stock analysis.  I would really like to be allowed to touch the real thing, Sir, please, please, please, soon.
 
(sorry sir.  I am a dirty girl, today, and you would have every right to take your belt off to cure me of these filthy thoughts.)
 
Submissive

 

History of project

And this is how it all started .......

Ever since I can remember, I have felt "submissive", yet kept this side hidden and proceeded to survive hard and fast in a man's world, many times being mistaken for a "dominant" woman.

Last year, I reached a saturation point and suddenly decided that I needed to find a dominant man, who liked to spank; in fact I initially started out seeking an "old codger with a cane"!

What follows is the story of how I went about it and what transpired, from the "light-bulb" moment of putting Google and Spanking together and entering into the awesome website of British Spanking, whereupon (I couldn't get in there quick enough!) I proudly announced that I am a "submissive woman seeking a dominant man - in Essex, for discipline", to that final candlelight collaring ceremony, 6 months later. Through a series of Tests, including a visit to a headmistress, a visit to a Discipline orientated playroom in London and various other “Scenarios”, Sir proceeds to ascertain my suitability as his submissive and sometimes, there are tears!  Come with me through my foot-stamping tantrums and sulks as Mr Spankipants stands firm, dominating relentlessly, apparently without ever getting tired of it – as the level of texting and msn conversation testify – through the first phase of my journey into submission from a standpoint of total novice and find out Why I did it and Why I still do it.